Life's Lessons

Went out and had a few drinks with friends tonight, also unplanned, but at zero cost to me, so that was nice. And after drinks, I was hungry and wasn't about to come home and cook dinner at midnight. So JITB to the rescue.

I find myself in a very retrospective mood lately. I'm not sure why. It cycles, I suppose. In general, I am pretty pleased with my life up to this point. Granted, I've made some bad choices, and spent far too much time with the wrong people. But I like to think I've learned from it. And that those experiences have improved me somehow. Here's a sample of what my life has taught me so far:

1. Call me a prude if you like, but I know, for me personally, I will not date someone who does drugs. No matter how casual a user they may claim to be. That's nothing against anyone who chooses to go that route, it's just not a situation I choose to be a part of again.
2. The Golden Rule should be followed. Have respect for and tolerance of others. You don't have to like every one you encounter, but there's no reason for rudeness or closed-mindedness.
3. Honesty really is the best policy, but tact is just as important.
4. My family means the world to me and there is no shame in admitting that.
5. Don't be afraid to admit when you are wrong. Laugh at your mistakes and then learn from them.
6. Let the people you love know it. By your words and your actions. Tomorrow may be too late.
7. I have zero tolerance for infidelity. If you feel the need to roam, have the decency to let your partner know you're unhappy, break it off, whatever, first. See #2 re: respect.
8. The story about friends "for a reason, a season, or a lifetime" is true. Accept the fact that some friendships may end. But they all serve a purpose and should be treasured.
9. Tears can be therapuetic. Don't hold them all in.
10. Masturbation will not make you go blind.